Parental responsibility – what does it mean?

It might seem logical that the parents of a child should have parental responsibility, but that is not always the case.

As you would expect, a child’s birth mother has parental responsibility. However, parental responsibility might be removed from the birth mother by an adoption order or by a parental order following surrogacy.

If the child’s father and mother were married to each other at the time of the child’s birth, they each have parental responsibility. If the parents were not married to each other at the time of the birth, the father can gain parental responsibility by:

  • Registering the birth jointly with the mother
  • Subsequently marrying the child’s mother
  • Through a “parental responsibility agreement” between the father and the child’s mother that is registered with the court
  • By obtaining a court order for parental responsibility.

Where two female parents have a child through fertility treatment, the mother’s female partner is treated in the same way as the father. Civil partners also have parallel parental responsibility rights to married people. It is possible for a legal parent not to have parental responsibility and for someone to have parental responsibility without being a legal parent.

What is parental responsibility?

Section 3 of the Children Act 1989 defines parental responsibility as “all the rights, duties, powers, responsibilities and authority which by law a parent of a child has in relation to the child and his property.”

Parental responsibility confers a range of legal rights and duties. These include:

  • Naming the child
  • Providing a home for the child
  • Ensuring the child’s wellbeing
  • Protecting the child
  • Consenting to the child’s medical treatment
  • Deciding the child’s education
  • Agreeing to any change of name
  • Looking after the child’s property
  • Disciplining the child

In other words, parental responsibility allows you to make day to day decisions for the child. It does not give someone a right to spend time with the child if they do not live with them. However, where those with parental rights do not live together, the other parent must be consulted when making important decisions about the child’s life.

Surrogacy

A surrogate mother is the child’s legal mother at birth. Who the second legal parent is at birth depends on the circumstances. The intended parents need a “parental order” from the courts after the child is born. A parental order confers both legal parenthood and parental responsibility on the intended parents.

When does parental responsibility end?

Parental responsibility in the UK usually comes to an end on the child’s 18th birthday. However, it can end earlier if:

  • The child gets married between the ages of 16 and 18
  • There is an adoption order that overrides the birth parents’ responsibilities
  • In the case of surrogacy, a parental order has been granted
  • The court terminates the individual’s parental rights if, for example, the parent poses a threat to the child’s welfare
  • A person with parental responsibility dies

The court can also restrict a person’s parental responsibility by making an order to limit their rights whilst not terminating the parental responsibility completely.

To speak with Dimple or another member of the Family team, please call 01483 887766, email info@hartbrown.co.uk or start a live chat today. 

*This is not legal advice; it is intended to provide information of general interest about current legal issues.

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Dimple Patel

Senior Associate, Family Law

Dimple is a Senior Associate Solicitor in the family law department. She qualified as a solicitor in 2007 after reading law at City University and...

Hart-Brown

Senior Associate, Family Law

Dimple Patel

Dimple is a Senior Associate Solicitor in the family law department. She qualified as a solicitor in 2007 after reading law at City University and has worked as a family solicitor in both Surrey and London. She joined Hart Brown in 2022.

Her practice involves advising on all aspects of family law and in particular the financial aspects of divorce and dissolution of civil partnership. She has extensive experience in negotiating financial settlements and advises clients with substantial assets including family businesses, pensions, trusts, foreign assets and inherited wealth as well as clients with more modest income and assets. She also deals with the variation and enforcement of existing financial orders.

Dimple assists clients to protect assets and family wealth through prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. She also assists cohabiting couples with cohabitation agreements, financial and property disputes as well as financial claims for children of unmarried parents under Schedule 1 Children Act.

Dimple has considerable experience advising on arrangements for children following divorce and separation including relocation of children both within England and Wales and abroad. She also assists clients where there are concerns around domestic abuse through personal protection injunctions such as Non-Molestation and Occupations Orders.

Dimple is a member of Resolution, a national organisation of family lawyers and other professionals committed to the constructive resolution of family disputes. She aims to provide practical, tailored advice to enable her clients to make informed choices with a focus on early settlement.

Dimple often receives wonderful feedback from her clients, here are just a few testimonials.

“Dimple is very professional and reliable. I was able to always count on her excellent advice, quick responses to my queries and sympathetic balanced communications with all parties. I would whole heartedly recommend her to anyone dealing with family legal issues”

“Dimple quickly understood the challenges I was facing and we spoke a lot on the phone which I found helpful and calming. She is very bright, professional and warm and just the person one needs when dealing with difficult and unfamiliar issues. Dimple is committed, has good judgment and eye for detail. She is a highly competent solicitor and I highly recommend her.”

“Thank you so much for your help, support and advice through this difficult process. I appreciate all you’ve done and look forward to a brighter future, thanks to your help”

“Thank you so much for everything you’ve done for me. You were so easy to work with at every stage of the game and I really appreciated having you to turn to. I still can’t believe how smoothly everything went! And the good news is, I’m genuinely finding happiness again in my life.”

“Thank you for your assistance and support over the last few years in relation to my difficult and challenging divorce proceedings and help to conclude the child matters with the best result I could have hoped for. I appreciate all your efforts on my case. I am so happy that I am spending quality time with my son and that he is getting to know his extended paternal family. Thank you for helping to make this happen.”